When people are deeply hurt after their marriage or relationship ends, they need to let the anger go. Men sometimes have the most difficulty healing from a bad relationship.
A few weeks back, we wrote about SF, a South Florida woman who had a short-lived relationship with a man she met online. In that column, SF wrote: "He mentioned a past relationship that had caused him a lot of pain, the woman had belittled him often, and after three years, it was enough and he walked out. It had been eight months he said, and then he mentioned he knew someone who could make sure she would get to see my picture he had in his I phone."
The ex saw SF's picture, got jealous, and enticed him back. He dumped SF, apparently to go back for more of the old pain.