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December 8, 2017

Part One -Searching for a marriage-minded man

This week, an email arrived in my inbox from Barbara, who wrote, “I want to know what is the best online dating website for a woman in her 50’s to meet a marriage-minded male?” Wow, I thought, a senior marriage-minded man.


June 9, 2017

This week, I received an email from Champ Karen in Michigan, saying she had kept a copy of the October 25, 2013, newsletter on her computer home screen. The title: “Rebuilding Trust After Being Dumped Takes Time.” She sent a copy to help me recall it.

Karen said, “I tho...

June 2, 2017

Life and Love after 50 eNewsletter -  June 2, 2017

There are three parts to today’s newsletter.

Part 1 - Marrying the Church Casserole Ladies. Words of advice from seven Champs to Steve, the recent widower from New York State who was featured in last week's eNew...

April 22, 2017

 April 14, 2017

There are three parts to this week’s newsletter.

Part one – Don’t rush important, life-changing decisions

In 2009, I published “How 50 Couples Found Love After 50.” A number of our Champs are included in that book.

Now, eight years later, I have con...

April 13, 2017

There are three parts to this week’s newsletter.

In 2009, I published “How 50 Couples Found Love After 50.”

Now, eight years later, I have contemplated doing a follow-up on what became of each couple. But, some of the couples I have lost contact with and a follow-up woul...

February 3, 2017

 February 3, 2017

Today's newsletter has 4 parts.


February 1, 2017

Bouncing Back from spouse leaving

It’s funny how column topics come about. Last week, I shared an email I had received from Champ Jessie in Oregon.

In that email, Jessie was quoted as saying she was single for 15 years before she and Paul found each other. Then she s...

January 26, 2017

This week, I received four emails that I found interesting. Messages from our Champs make writing these weekly newsletters a pleasure. Our subscriber list, new Champs, keeps growing. Welcome to the newcomers this week.

Email 1 – Love in Oregon

Jessie from Oregon took...

January 17, 2017

Several times a year, Champs contact me with a variety of questions about long-distance relationships, such as, “My new boyfriend lives in Oshkosh. I live in Milwaukee. Do you consider this a long-distance relationship?” Or, “Can a long distance relationship be success...

December 16, 2016

   These men were changing the guard at the Copenhagen Royal Palace

In response to last week’s newsletter that listed the best and worst cities for potentially meeting a mate, in the top 150 USA most populous cities, Emily said, “I have never been anywhere where t...

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