From the Mailbag: Questions and comments I received over the last few days that will either have you scratching your head or smiling as we launch into 2017. 1. Is a man cheap if he doesn’t want to spend money on dating? Micki asked: “What is your opinion of this situation? A friend of a friend does not want to date women because it means spending money on a date. Do you think this person has financial issues or he is just a cheapskate?” Tom’s answer: It might not be either. I