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Surprising your girlfriend with a train ride                            

Women love to be surprised by their sweeties on Valentine’s day. For guys, it’s a challenge to come up with something new every year. This time, I planned a surprise using the Internet and wanted to keep my partner Greta guessing.

A week before Valentine’s day, I said to her, "Our 'MISSION' is as follows. We'll be leaving your house before 8 a.m. on Valentine’s morning. Each day until then I will give you three clues, and then I mentioned the first clue:

"Pack a casual bag with walking shoes." That didn't tell her much--it sounded like a hiking trip.

Most of the clues were intentionally obscure. I didn’t make them overly informative; I wanted the surprise to last.

As the week progressed, this was one of the clues:

"One was called The Mercury, another The Twilight, and another The Wolverine. In the song, 'Texas 1947,' Johnny Cash sang about one."  She was fairly confused. I was proud of myself for keeping her guessing.

Another clue: "Gauchos hang out there."  She put the words "MISSION" and "Gauchos," together and was convinced we were heading for Santa Barbara, about three hours from us on the Central California coast. University of California Santa Barbara sports teams are nicknamed "Gauchos." I made that clue too easy.

More clues: "Sometimes, the front is at the back, and the back is at the front. The colors are red, white, and blue."

I told her that according to a Gordon Lightfoot song, the men who built one lived on stew and drank bad whiskey. She guessed we were going to a dude ranch for a week-end of living like cowboys.

In the final clue, I suggested she bring ample reading material. I knew she'd have time on the train to read.

On Valentine’s morning, we left her San Clemente, California, house and drove south. She changed her destination guess to Mexico. Then I exited the freeway and went north on the I-5, and she went back to her Santa Barbara-destination guess.

We pulled into San Juan Capistrano for breakfast at Mollies. When a red and white Amtrak train sailed by, with the engine facing backwards, she said, "We’re taking the train!" The surprise was over.

We drove to the parking garage next to the Amtrak depot; our Santa Barbara-bound train was leaving at 9:34 a.m.

In Santa Barbara, we stayed at a motel on State Street. From there, we walked two miles to the end of the pier and back, along restaurants and shops teeming with tourists. For dinner, we selected romantic Carlitos & Co., and agreed the restaurant had the best Mexican food (and margaritas) we’d ever had.

In the morning, after a pancake breakfast at IHOP, the weather was so beautiful we walked while carrying our bags the two miles to the train station for our 10:18 a.m. departure back.  

I haven’t decided what to do for next Valentine’s Day. Oh, and those clues: The Mercury, Wolverine, and Twilight? They were the names of the New York Central trains which ran through my hometown of Jackson, Michigan, shortly after World War II. My dad took my brother and I to the station to watch the trains come and go. It was a big deal for us.

"Texas 1947," the Johnny Cash song, was about the first diesel train that ran through Texas and the Lightfoot tune, "The Canadian Railroad Song," was about building the Canadian railroad, where the men lived on stew and drank bad whiskey. Greta said she suspected that but didn't want to ruin the surprise so didn't say anything.

There are more train trips in our future. And Santa Barbara will be one of our destinations. © Tom Blake 2003

 

 

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